Dating women with 3 kids

I personally think it's something that could improve with time or if you worked with your gf on it. She apologized for putting me in that situation but it will happen again. But I'm wondering if I'm not ready to deal w/ crap like this.

We worked it out but the whole thing leaves a little sour taste in my mouth. And do you think I was over reacting when I confronted GF about this. In situations where a person was previously married and had kids you are just going to have to expect some awkward moments when building a new relationship together.

Since you do see her as your "perfect woman", there is just no reason to get in a hurry to make the situation "perfect" okay? We have been dating for about a yr and I met her kids about 3 months ago. I've met her ex..seems nice/respectful and a good father. I got to meet her family this past weekend for the first time at her house (we don't live together). But I didn't want to create a scene or give anyone the wrong impression, so I grinned and beared it. When GF and I had some time alone, I told her how I felt and was somewhat angry for her putting me in that situation.

Your overreaction was normal, so don't read too much in to that. Her ex was there and the kids along with her family. Seeing them interact together and GF interact with ex (not in love at all but get along great)... It's hard enough to meet the family, having the ex husband present just makes it tougher.

A single mom has to be tough, independent, patient, real, practical, fun, selfless, nurturing, and picky about the right man for her and the kids.

She is confident and appreciative of her strengths and abilities.

She holds bachelor's degrees in English and history from Centenary College of Louisiana.

She is a pastoral family counselor and has parented birth, step, adopted and foster children.

We worked it out but the whole thing leaves a little sour taste in my mouth. And do you think I was over reacting when I confronted GF about this. The "Big" advantage of seeing a woman with kids is you know what you are getting! It was unfair of me and I immediatly apologized for acting like jerk.

Just want some feedback especially from others who may have been in similar situations and how you dealt with uncomfortable situations like that. She apologized for putting me in that situation but it will happen again. But I'm wondering if I'm not ready to deal w/ crap like this. I think three kids is a lot too, but you do what you feel you must.

Older kids could be uncomfortable thinking about mom as a dating, sexual being, according to psychologist Carl Pickhardt in "Adolescence and the Dating Parent," writing for "Psychology Today." If the relationship is leaning to a long-term commitment, you will meet the kids.

It might start with an introduction as Mom’s friend and progress to activities that include her and the children if things move positively.

It was a tough spot to be in for sure, but it will get better if you can just be patient! It was unfair of me and I immediatly apologized for acting like jerk. If this woman is everything your said and your "In Love" with her then I don't see you have any other choice. We have been dating for about a yr and I met her kids about 3 months ago. I've met her ex..seems nice/respectful and a good father. I got to meet her family this past weekend for the first time at her house (we don't live together). But I didn't want to create a scene or give anyone the wrong impression, so I grinned and beared it. When GF and I had some time alone, I told her how I felt and was somewhat angry for her putting me in that situation.

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